The love story
Narelle & Trev first crossed paths 16 years ago at University, introduced by mutual friends Cam and Lachie. Living in opposing halls of residence, their friendly rivalry began on the mixed netball court – where Trev was captivated not only by Narelle’s sharp shooting skills but by something more. After a year of friendship, one of them (neither can remember who!) sparked a conversation on MSN chat, and from there, the rest is history.
Their first official date was a classic dinner-and-movie outing at Chadstone, where they shared a meal and endured Semi-Pro – a film they both fondly agree was a terrible choice!
The proposal
After choosing the engagement ring together, Trev stayed tight-lipped about when he’d collected it – and somehow managed to keep it hidden too! Over the years, Narelle had often hinted at her favourite spot on the farm: a peaceful waterhole that held a special place in her heart.
When the day finally came, Trev quietly went out for a drive to scope out the location and figure out how to get there. On his return, he told Narelle to get ready because he wanted to do a ‘photoshoot’ with her and their fluffy baby, Benji the dog. Narelle saw right through the plan but decided to play along. She was less impressed, however, when Trev paused at a gate and suggested she’d have to jump it in her nice dress – lucky for him, she let him back in the car after he got out and opened it properly!
Once at the waterhole, Trev set up the camera and convinced Narelle to pose. He discreetly hit record, then dropped to one knee and asked the question that would change everything. The result? Gorgeous images capturing the magic of the moment – the sparkling waterhole, the sun glowing behind them, and their beloved Benji right there with them both.
One piece of advice
Get the big things locked in early, and provide a clear, high-level brief for your vendors – then trust them to handle the finer details. They’re the experts and do this every day! Make sure you collaborate as a couple throughout the planning. Even though Narelle focused on the details, she always shared ideas with Trev and welcomed his feedback and suggestions. And for the grooms: stay interested, be part of the journey, but be ready to support and go with the flow when it comes to what matters most to your bride!
The gown
Narelle shared “I fell in love with the Austin gown by Made With Love – there was just so much to adore about it! Simple yet elegant, it’s a timeless piece that combines classic beauty with a modern edge. The dress creates a stunningly flattering silhouette, hugging my figure perfectly – highlighting my hips from the front and, yes, showing off the booty from behind! Some of my favourite features include the low-cut triangle neckline, the fitted design that flows into a line of delicate buttons down the back, and the long, trailing skirt that looked absolutely incredible in photos. But the true hero of the gown? That breathtaking open low backline with its soft, beautiful cowl. It was love at first sight – and I couldn’t have been happier wearing it!”
The venue
We discovered Coonawarra Farm Resort – a place typically used for school camps! At first, Trev had a few reservations, but once we visited, he could see my vision and all the incredible benefits it offered. Like many venues, it gave us a blank canvas to work with – but at just a fraction of the price. And Coonawarra came with so much more: the breathtaking drive in with views of rolling hills and trees, multiple indoor spaces, a full caterer’s kitchen, an outdoor undercover area with BBQ facilities, a beautiful lawn framed by trees, and plenty of accommodation so all our guests could stay on-site. We even had access to the pool and canoes if we wanted them! One of the things we loved most was the flexibility. We were able to plan for both indoor and outdoor options and didn’t have to lock in our final choice until the day before the wedding. Coonawarra was everything we could have hoped for and more.
The ceremony
Our ceremony was filled with meaningful touches that reflected who we are. As the bride made her way down the aisle, we had brass band music playing – a nod to her love of music and passion for playing in a brass band. We were honoured to have long-time friends take part in our day. Ash, all the way from Canada, read a heartfelt prayer; Steph shared a beautiful poem; and Georgie and Lachie stood with us as our witnesses, signing the register.
For our first dance, we were lucky to have the bride’s sister – a talented dance teacher – choreograph something special just for us. We chose ‘Avant Toi’, a French song with gentle piano backing. The lyrics, meaning ‘Before You’, spoke so perfectly to our story: before you, there was darkness; but now, everything is lighter and better. It set the perfect tone without distracting from the moment (except for one friend who speaks French and caught every word!). The groom even explained the meaning in his speech, making it all the more special.
Favourite memories
For Trev, beyond the unforgettable moment of seeing Narelle walk down the aisle, pulling off their wedding dance was especially meaningful. As someone who proudly claims to have two left feet, nailing the choreography – set to a song that held such deep significance – was a truly special memory.
For Narelle, it was hearing the beautiful, thoughtful words shared during the speeches. Listening to friends and family speak from the heart was incredibly moving. And once all the formalities were done, seeing everyone dancing, chatting, and simply enjoying themselves made the day feel complete.
Favourite vendors
It’s so hard to choose just one! Ella Del was fantastic – she made decorating so easy and was an absolute pleasure to work with. Our caterers were relaxed, professional, and served up the most amazing food that everyone raved about. And of course, Coonawarra Farm Resort was incredible – so accommodating and supportive, they really went above and beyond to make the venue perfect for us. These three definitely stand out in making our day unforgettable.
Vendors
Accessories Sunglasses I Accommodation Coonawarra Farm Resort I Alterations Steph Mowat I Bars DIY I Bridal Gown & Veil Designer Made With Love I Bridesmaid Dresses Billy J I Cake / Sweets Rachys Sweet Things I Catering Friends of Family I Celebrant Reverend David Perryman I Ceremony Venue Coonawarra Farm Resort I Entertainment / Music The Baker Boys I Florist Benita Tscharke Floral I Grooms Attire Whiskey on Rocks I Hire Services Gippsland Music and Sound / Ella Del Wedding and Events I Honeymoon The Maldives I Invitations / Stationery Carded I Jewellery Jeremy Fleming Jewellers / Lovisa I Makeup Artist Makeup by Juana Jose I Nails / Tan Eternal Beauty / Golden Nail Care and Beauty I Photographer Lisa Hayman Photo + Film I Reception Venue Coonawarra Farm Resort I Robes, Sleepwear & Lingerie Amazon I Wedding Stylist Ella Del Wedding and Events I Videographer Four by Four Films
Lisa Hayman Photo and Film
Hi! I’m Lisa. I live in Central Gippsland with my husband Derek, our two sweet girls, and our fur baby Elliot the cat. I have an unhealthy addiction to “The Block”, buy far too many indoor plants, and I have a secret obsession with the “Guilty Pleasures” playlist on Spotify. It is important that you find someone whose work you love, but I believe it is just as important to find someone who will bring out the best of who you are in your photos. The truth is, your wedding is a once in a lifetime occasion – the two of you are about to start the most challenging, rewarding, and exciting experience of your lives together – and choosing someone to capture that day through photography is a big decision. My approach to wedding photography is to tell your story – as it happens. On the day, I’ll be your cheerleader, your seamstress (if ever required, ha!), your level-headed support person and your dance floor comrade. Your day is about celebrating your love story and I’ll joyfully be coming along for the ride. From run sheets to location scouting, I do a whole heap of prep in the lead up to ensure the day runs as smoothly as possible and we can get the very best out of your wedding day photography coverage.
I am so thrilled you are considering me to document your special day!